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Home » Blog » Stop Fighting and Start Communicating: How Mediation Can Help Your Relationship

Stop Fighting and Start Communicating: How Mediation Can Help Your Relationship

May 24, 2023
John Alberts

Mediation can be a beneficial option if you are getting a divorce in Oklahoma for several reasons:

  1. Cost-effective: Mediation is often less expensive than going to court. It can save you significant legal fees associated with a lengthy court battle, as well as the expenses related to litigation. Things such as attorney fees, court filing fees, and expert witness fees will add up in a lengthy court battle.

  2. Control and flexibility: Mediation allows you and your spouse to have more control over the outcome of your divorce. Instead of leaving decisions in the hands of a judge, you and your spouse along with your attorney work with a neutral mediator to reach mutually agreeable solutions to your unique situation. This process gives you the flexibility to customize agreements that meet the unique needs and priorities of your family.

  3. Confidentiality: Mediation proceedings in Oklahoma are confidential, meaning that discussions, negotiations, and any information disclosed during mediation cannot be used against you in court. This fosters an environment of open and honest communication, promoting a more productive and cooperative atmosphere.

  4. Preservation of relationships: Divorce can strain relationships, particularly when litigation becomes adversarial about issues such as children and finances. Mediation offers an opportunity for constructive dialogue and problem-solving, helping to preserve and improve communication between you and your spouse. This can be particularly important if you have children, as co-parenting requires ongoing cooperation and collaboration.

  5. Quicker resolution: Mediation can lead to a faster resolution compared to a court trial, which may be subject to delays and a congested court system. By actively engaging in the mediation process, you and your spouse can work towards resolving issues efficiently, potentially saving you time and allowing you to move forward more quickly.

It is important to note that mediation may not be suitable for all divorcing couples, especially in cases involving domestic violence, severe power imbalances, or situations where one party is not willing to negotiate in good faith. In such cases, consulting with an attorney can help you determine the best course of action.

Overall, mediation can offer a more amicable, cost-effective, and personalized approach to divorce, enabling you and your spouse to have a greater degree of control over the outcome while minimizing conflict and stress.

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