We live in a world where most people are involved with some form of social media. People have a Twitter account and Facebook account or they are involved in numerous other forms of social media. During the divorce process these accounts can play a major role in your divorce case. I typically tell people.....do not post anything on social media that you would not want your grandmother to read. The point is, if Read More
How to Enforce a Court’s Orders
In the practice of family law the contempt citation is used to enforce the decree. If you were involved in a divorce or paternity case, at the end of your case the court entered a decree. In the decree there is a list of orders entered by the court. Those orders are to be followed by the parties. When a party fails to follow the courts order they are in contempt of the court’s order. The way that you can Read More
False Claims Create Problems
One of the most difficult things to deal with as attorneys who handle family law matters is when a child is abused by one or both parents. The children are innocent victims who at times receive the brunt of an adult’s anger and frustration. As an attorney, we are obligated to report child abuse if it is suspected. We encourage you to do the same. The DHS 24-hour hotline for reporting child abuse is 1-800-522-3511. Read More
Know the Facts Before Filing for Divorce in Oklahoma
If you or a family member is considering divorce in Oklahoma, the following list provides basic information. There are 10 things to know about filing for divorce in Oklahoma: Residency Requirements– In order to be able to file for divorce, one or both of the parties must reside in Oklahoma for six (6) months. Additionally, the parties must reside in the county where they are filing for thirty (30) days prior to Read More
More Parents Are Considering Joint Custody As An Option
Here at Bedlam Law we focus primarily on divorce, child custody and estate planning cases. In divorce and child custody cases I have seen a trend take place over the last several years. More parents are considering joint custody as an option. This article shares some basic information regarding joint custody. I should start by saying joint custody does not determine the visitation schedule in your case. A common Read More
Is Following Your Spouse A Crime?
My first job was in the Kay County District Attorney Office in Newkirk, Oklahoma. Part of my caseload was the prosecution of different types of crimes involving domestic violence. My best day as a prosecutor was when First Assistant District Attorney James Emig and I put Timothy Wayne Lambert in prison for 1,600 years for touching four little girls. I have always been a strong advocate against domestic violence and Read More
Holidays Can Be Hard For Blended Families
Although I truly believe people going through divorce should avoid the courtroom if it all possible, going to court is the favorite part of my job. With Christmas quickly approaching and divorced parents discussing holiday visitation, I wanted to share with you an experience I had a few years ago. The story I am sharing has been edited to protect the parties but I believe it still makes an important point. On Read More
Reasons You Need to Hire an Estate Planning Attorney
According to Forbes, about 50% of Americans do not have basic estate planning documents. Why? A lot of people do not know that several estate planning products are available. Others do not understand the advantages of owning a will. Think about this... Pablo Picasso, a prominent artist, died at the age of 91. He left behind an estate, valued at approximately $250 million. However, Picasso didn't have a will. As Read More
Hiring the Best Child Support Attorney Lawyers
One of the bitter experiences after divorce is the battle for the custody and child support (of a child you both love) with your Ex. As disheartening as this is, it is a reality we have to live through because our child's life and future is at stake. So you are right in deciding to fight tooth and nail to win this case. When to hire a child support attorney Being certain you want to win this is one thing, Read More
Estate Planning Basics: What is the Difference Between Wills and Trusts?
In the world of estate planning, Wills and Trusts are two of the most common tools that you can use. While they can both help you to plan for the future of your estate, they aren’t interchangeable. Many people will need to have both a Will and a Trust in place to properly protect themselves, their assets, and most importantly, their loved ones. Take a moment to read through some of the main differences between the Read More